When Young People Teach Adults How to Be Grown Up

For decades, massacres from gun violence has been killing Americans of all ages, ethnicities, and backgrounds throughout America. Despite so many gun-related deaths, so-called adults in Congress mostly twiddle their thumbs and do nothing. Sadly, the idea of adults doing nothing is nothing new.

During World War Two, Hitler invaded Denmark and gave the King of Denmark an ultimatum. Either surrender peacefully or risk attack. To save his people, the King of Denmark chose to surrender peacefully to the Germans and allow them to take over Denmark. Under orders from the Danish king, the Danish military laid down their arms and refused to fight.

Appalled at the lack of a backbone to stand up to the Nazi aggressors, a group of boys, aged 12 to 19, refused to allow the indignity of foreign troops taking over their country. These boys formed a resistance group called the Churchill Club, named after Winston Churchill, England’s prime minister, who refused to surrender to Adolf Hitler.

The boys of the Churchill Club sabotaged Nazi trucks, stole weapons, and even lit a train on fire containing German airplane parts. Although all the boys were caught, their actions stirred the adults of Denmark into action, who quickly formed their own resistance groups to fight back against the Nazis.

What’s sad is that it took teenage boys to help Denmark finally decide to fight back against the Nazi invaders. Until then, the Danish police, military, and politicians were content to do absolutely nothing. Given a choice between doing what’s right and being humbled into submission, it’s astonishing how many so-called adults will accept submission instead of fighting for what they want.

Throughout history, young people have been at the heart of change. During the Vietnam War protests, it wasn’t the parents losing their sons to the war who protested, but the young people being drafted to fight in the unpopular war.

During the recent Parkland school shooting, it wasn’t the politicians who said gun violence in our schools is unacceptable. It was the students themselves who finally stood up to protest. Meanwhile, politicians on both sides simply twiddled their thumbs and did nothing.

If you want life to change for the better, the lesson from history is to never expect such change to come from adults. Instead, look to the young for hope. While many of the young will eventually turn into grumpy, conservative, spineless adults like their parents, a handful of young people will continue fighting for what’s right.

In the book “The Boys Who Challenged Hitler,” you can read about how teenagers stood up to Adolf Hitler and Nazi Germany. If teenage boys can do that while adults do nothing, think of what today’s teenagers can do while American adults do nothing.

Never expect adults to do anything that’s right because it’s too often easier for adults to do what’s convenient, which shows their lack of principle and morality. Always look to the young to make changes in life because far too many adults have lost their will to care for anyone other than themselves.

If you feel alienated and lost as a young person, chances are good it’s because the adults around you aren’t standing up for what’s right. By reading a book like “The Boys Who Challenged Hitler,” you can be inspired to stand up for yourself and for what’s right, which is something far too many adults in your life will never be willing to do.

How “Catch-22” Shows How to Deal with Suicide and Depression

If you’ve ever felt depressed or suicidal, chances are good you believe your life consists of nothing but equally unappealing choices. When confronted by nothing but lousy choices, it’s easy to get depressed or feel like suicide is the only option.

However, the real problem with depression or suicidal tendencies isn’t that there are no good options available to you. There are, but you just may not see them. As long as you believe no good choices exist, you won’t bother looking for them, which makes them as good as not existing in the first place. People get depressed not because their lives have no good options, but because they don’t know where to look and find better options for their lives.

When faced with a dilemma that forces you to choose between equally unappealing options, you can learn from “Catch-22,” a novel by Joseph Heller, which was also made into a movie. Given a choice, read the book because it’s far superior to the movie although the movie does visually show the insanity of war as you can see in the clip below where a commanding officer cares more about making money than the lives of his own troops.

Basically the idea behind “Catch-22” is that a bombardier during World War Two is told that he must fly a certain number of missions before he’s allowed to go home. Unfortunately every time he survives to meet the required number of missions, his commander raises the number to force him to keep flying.

As a result, he must keep flying until he eventually gets shot down and dies. As he watches his friends get shot down and die, he knows it’s only a matter of time before he’s next. That means his only choice is to keep flying until he eventually dies.

However, he does find a way out. If he can prove that he’s crazy, he can be released from flying. Of course the only way he can prove he’s crazy is to keep flying because only a crazy person would keep flying missions, knowing that he’ll eventually be shot down and die.

The moment he wants to stop flying because he’s afraid of dying, he’s obviously sane and must keep flying more missions. Because he can only get out of flying if he’s crazy but he can only prove he’s crazy by continuing to fly, he’s stuck in a dilemma known as a Catch-22.

Such a Catch-22 dilemma is what many depressed and suicidal people feel. They feel like no matter what they choose, they’re doomed to a horrible choice so the only way out is through addiction of some kind such as alcohol, drugs, sex, gambling, or the ultimate escape which is suicide.

What “Catch-22” teaches is that whenever you’re confronted by a dilemma, you can always create your own, far better alternative, but you have to first believe such an alternative exists and you must then take action to pursue that better alternative.

“Catch-22” is about realizing you are always in control of your life in some form and by believing you have better options, you’ll look and find or make that better option. Then you can embrace that better option rather than feel trapped in a Catch-22 dilemma stuck between multiple unappealing choices.

So if you’re feeling depressed or suicidal, take a moment to read “Catch-22.” Not only will it help you see war from a humorous point of view and the insanity behind it, but it will also show you how to escape a dilemma by making your own option, however crazy it might be.

Read “Catch-22” and skip the movie. “Catch-22” just might help you find a way to overcome depression and suicidal tendencies just by thinking about your life from another point of view.